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Separated, Divorced, or loss of a spouse support net.

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Separated, Divorced, or loss of a spouse support net.

Those Christians who are facing separation, divorce, or loss of a spouse need love and care from their brothers and sister in Christ during this time of crisis in there lives. If one part of the body is hurt we all are hurt.

Members: 114
Latest Activity: Dec 17

I wanted to put a comment here that I left for a young man who had just separated and was in real anguish. When I looked at his picture on his page and looked into his eyes, I saw the same pain there that I saw in my own eyes when I faced separation after 25 years of marriage. I hope to make this group a real source of support for those who are in this position that most of us never dreamed of being in, and then found our selves there anyway.
This is the post.
I do know the place where you are at right now, because I have been there. Without going through all the details of my experience I want you to know that because you have come to this net. You are not alone in your suffering anymore. I know how hard it is to allow others to help you when you have been so wounded. You do not need me or any one to fix this problem right now, all you need to know is that someone cares about you. I remember the day my Pastor came to my house, just set with me half a day, and cried with me.
It didn’t turn out the way I thought it would after 2 years now.
Am I back in my marriage? No.
But I am sharing a house with her and we live in separate apartments.
It is a process where I have allowed God to mold me and it has not been easy.
Is there life after separation or divorce or the loss of a spouse? Yes!
But you can’t deal with it alone. You need some one to help you find a way through this whole mess. I will and others here will pray that God will lead you to those who will help. God can handle your anger and disappointment and your grief. He is a very present help in time of need.

Maybe you are reading this and your heart is broken, you are feeling lost, and have lost your hope.
I pray that you might just share your story here and allow God to minister to you though others who love the Lord and have a compassionate heart. I realize through my own experience that I needed the members of the Body of Christ to help me in this journey.
My motto has become: STAND NO MORE ALONE.

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Bob B

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Bob B

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Sara

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Lillian

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some times it happens when God wants ,remember the Bible tells us that He knew us before we were formed in our mothers womb and every person has predestined life .when my husband died, i was down and…

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Bob B

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george Comment by george on April 10, 2008 at 12:15pm
Bro Bob you are really a big blessing to a lot of people suffering from pain of separations, divorce and even to those people who are lossing a spouse, through this site. May you continue to be a source of encouragement and light to many people. I do hope i can also be of help in this site to many people. God bless you and more power.

his servant,
Ptr. george Manalang
cara Comment by cara on April 9, 2008 at 12:58am
Hi I need a wee bit of help with a situation,my partner and i have found a great spirit filled church and have started going we'd love to take his son along with us but we only have him every 2 weekends and his mother mighten like it as she hates me! we want him to know God (hes ten yrs old) and have a life with Him in it so how do we do this?
Bob B Comment by Bob B on April 8, 2008 at 5:46am
Pastor Yoel I placed the scripture you left in the net healing and prayer room. Bob
Yoel charan Comment by Yoel charan on April 7, 2008 at 10:13pm
Jesus Never Leaves
1. When you are alone , He is with you. Matthew 28: 20
2. When you are depress, He will encourage you. John 14:1
3. When you have heavy burden, He will lighten your burden.
matthew 11:28--30.
4. When you are sad , Hewill give you peace.Matthew 8:7.
Phil. 4:7
5. When you are struggling, He will make the way. 1Cor. 10:13.
6. when you are afraid, He will say fear not. Matthew 14:27
7. when you are weak, He will give you strenght. Phil.4:13.
So rejoice in the Lord. Rev. yoel charan
Yoel charan Comment by Yoel charan on April 7, 2008 at 9:57pm
Dear friends , I am here to help them spiritualy who are separated. Please write your problem i will solve your problem through word of God and through prayer.
Bob B Comment by Bob B on April 4, 2008 at 3:03am
Sometimes the pain of separation or going through a divorce or losing a spouse can go on for a long time. I found this song called ONE TOUCH that expresses ongoing pain in a life and the story of the women who had the issue of blood for 12 years. Touch the hem of His Garment today by faithand may you find healing in Jesus Name
Ramona Comment by Ramona on April 3, 2008 at 7:40am
hi, i am ramona and if i can offer support to anyone please let me know.
cara Comment by cara on April 2, 2008 at 9:07am
hi im cara ive just joined the group i hope i can be of help to anyone day or night ill pray,give encouragement and listen ive been thru it all! God bless!
brateng Comment by brateng on March 31, 2008 at 7:52am
Just joined the group but (unluckily) it is my time to go home for the day. I look forward to learn a lot and to help god in restructuring broken promises in line with Bro Bob's insight. love you all
Bob B Comment by Bob B on March 30, 2008 at 1:12pm
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