help me im new to god an the bible please i need help

[Debra . Rutledge]

my daughter is abusing me and iv pd her rent now she says she wants me dead and she hates me wants me out. Iv got no where to go i dont belong to any church yet please wat do i do?

[Greg, TheNET Coordinator]

Debra,

First off, PRAY! Tell God about everything you are going through. Ask Him to protect you and intervene in this situation.

In order for us to give you some advice, we need all the information on the situation that you can provide, so please elaborate!

What are your extended family and friends telling you?

[Debbie]

Hello Debra,
I feel for you in your situation, you and your daughter are in my prayers.
I agree with Greg...Pray! When we get quiet with God He directs our ways...it's hard when our minds are in a state of confusion to "get quiet with Him" but that would be a very good start, then listen...He will answer you.
This could be the opportunity for you to find the church you need to be at, or in the paths of people you need to meet. Quite often it takes a spiritual crisis to push us in the right direction that God has for our lives.
Proverbs 3:5-6
Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.
Isaiah 42:16
I will lead the blind by ways they have not known, along unfamiliar paths I will guide them; I will turn the darkness into light before them and make the rough places smooth. These are the things I will do; I will not forsake them.
Jeremiah 29:11
"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future".
God is working something in your life....pray and get quiet with Him. He will direct you. You aren't here by accident, God has a purpose for your life. He will put the right people in your path...I have the utmost faith in that.
God Bless,
Debbie

[Glenn Robichaux]

New month coming up do you have to help till you find a little houe, trailer or something till. Note Be Loving, forgive, do something for her but do it for God. Holy Spirit Guide I pray, give wisdom. I bind the hate, rebellion against her Mother. Change her heart bring her to Christ I pray let her see jesus in her Mother for Your Glory O God in Jesus name amen
Brother Glenn Robichaux

[Gayla]

Apparently your daugher is old enough to be on her own, since you say it is her rent. Since she is, and she feels this strongly , it might do you both some good, to live seperately. I feel sure that she more than likely does not mean what she is saying, she is just upset, and bad things are coming out of her mouth.

One thing to do, is try to stay calm, at all times, trying to correct an angry person, just makes them more angry. Give the situation over to God, in prayer, seeking his direction. Take a walk if things escalate, giving you both time to cool off.

Try to talk with her, when you both are calm, and see if the issues behind her anger can be resolved.

Reassure her of your love, do not condemn her, try to reach a compromise.


If she continues to feel this way, perhaps it is best to find different living arrangements, and continue to pray for her, and try to keep the lines of communication open between the two of you, if possible.

[sandra v villamero]

Dear Debra .....I stand in agreement with everything you will ask from the Lord. Pray and tell Him all you need, you can cry infront of Him and just accept Him and give Him freehand to do into your life according to His will. Lord in heaven I pray for your child Debra that she may find your face in this moment as she desires for you. open your mercy to her and let all forms of blessing be upom her, Lord provides her needs accordingly ane let her settle comfortly under your care as she cried out for you. In your name JESUS, I bind all the scheme and plans of the demons against debra that it wont prevail and that the demons will loosen his grip on Debra's daughter and will not use her against her mother. LORD let their be peace and victoried in bothe the mother and daughter. Glory to your name JESUS !