Dealing with Teen Pregnancy

[Florence Muyeye]

I'm 18 and i'm 4 months pregnant right now. i have grown up in a broken family and the news were not taken very well. i have recently moved out of my mother's place to live with my dad because my mum has been abusive and it was recommended that i get out the house. i do not have a close relationship with my dad but through God's help i know i will make it work. i have a very small group of friends and no close relatives i can talk to. When i first found out about my pregnancy abortion was my first option but my boyfriend was not for it neither was his family. my therapist has told me that this baby in me is a gift from God and its a blessing, but right now with all the hard things going on in my life i do not see it as a blessing and something to be happy about. they have kicked me out of school with just 2 months until my final high exams. i only have my boyfriend who is the same age as me so its really hard so be strong. sometimes God speaks to me and tells me that he is there for me, sometimes my faith is strong but there are times were i want to give up, commit suicide and just cry. i am really scared and i want to be strong, keep my faithb strong. i pray every second i can but things are not getting better, just harder and i dnt know if my strongwill can take it anymore.please pray for me!!!!

[Carla]

Dear Child of God,

I just want to come over there and give you a big hug. God has a tremendous plan for this unborn child, and He also has a tremendous plan for you.

This has been my verse lately as I have been going through a difficult time also.

Trust in the Lord your God with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will make your paths straight.

I am Praising God that you know Him, and that Jesus is your Savior! I pray that God will surround you with amazing support and Love. I pray that you will have more then your daily quota of physical and spiritual hugs and that you will know that you are blessed with this beautiful new life within you.

I look forward to hearing back from you... Read and pray psalm 91.

Much Love in Christ, Carla

[journeymanhd]

Dear Florence you are in my prrayers honey. God loves you so much! God has his hand to you and says I will lift you up. Just don't let go! Hold close to God's word and know that to go through our trials and tribulations brings us even closer to our Creator. There are good people who can and will help you. Look to God to show you like a gentle guiding hand.
Your child is a beautiful wonder and example of the power of God's creations. I will pray for you and I will ask God to grant you strength. Your courage is already apparent. Be strong young Mother. With God all things are possible.

[Gayla]

Hi honey....(((hugs)))

You are never alone...Christ is right there with you, 24/7.... you just have to believe that is so....and practice his presence...in other words, meditate on it, visualizing him setting right beside you, or walking with you, because he is, thru the power of his spirit.

You have made the right choice, even if it seems harder, it really isn't, because the other choice, would always be on your mind, if you gave in to that.... (this is something the pro-abortionists do not tell you.... that you have to live with your conscience ) Your boyfriend gave you good advice when he told you this, and I pray that you will be able to walk it out. Even if you chose to give up your baby (which I hope that you don't, because more than likely, you would regret it later) it would still be a better choice than abortion. And one that I think you could live with much easier.

Right now, you need support.. Jesus with skin on :)

Do you have a pregnancy support center in your town, if not, try online, they are an invaluable resource, and they are pro-life.

What about a church family? If not, please reach out, to find one, there surely is a spirit filled church in your town, or nearby that would be a big help to you ???

Keep coming to this forum, there are many beautiful souls here, that will be a loving support, during your time of need.

Father God, I thank you for the beautiful life, that is coming to you, for support in her time of need, I thank you for the faith, that brought her here, and the faith that will see her thru. I thank you for the good advice the father of the baby gave to her, and I pray that he and his family will do their part, in supporting her and the baby. I also pray that there will be a pregnancy support center nearby that she can be supported thru, and a loving church family, that will be there for her. I pray that you give her peace, concerning this, and that you supply what she has need of, keep your hand upon her life, and that of her baby, make beautiful things come from this rough start that she is experiencing. We thank you and praise you, in Jesus Mighty Name. Amen. (((hugs)))

[Carla]

Amen! and Amen!

[maya]

hi florence,
the Lord loves you, yes, we will find this world very difficult to live in, but remember it was more difficult for our Lord, he was even crucified, hang in there, ran the race, rear your child the christian way, that the Lord blessed you with a child means He knows you are capable as a mother, I pray for your strength , do not be scared the King of Kings, the Owner and Maker of the Universe, the Creator of all you see, He will help you because He loves you....

[Don Cui]

Dear Florence:
I know this is a very overwhelming time for you. It is frightening and brings great anxiety with it. You are here at All About God for a reason. This is a place where others can pray for you and encourage you, and a place where you can find peace during the storm. I hope my words my bring you the encouragement you need.

Years ago, my wife and I volunteered for Crisis Pregnancy Centers (CPC). CPC centers are there for you, and can provide you with the human touch, from guidance, to clothes, and even diapers. If you live in the US,please try to contact one of local centers near you. They will be a tremendous help to you.

At one point, we were lead to take in a young 18 y/o pregnant girl who had also been kicked out of her home. For 3 months, we gave her and her 5 y/o boy room and board. My point of saying that is there are Godly people near you who are trained and prepard to help you through the remainder of this pregnancy and again the place to begin is with CPC.

I am in family practice and I once had a young teenager get pregnant at age 12. She had had 1 period in her life and became sexually active. Her father was out of the picture, her mother was a drunk, and her older brother was gay. For all earthly inclinations, this young freightened 12 year old child had every reason to think about an abortion, except for the grace of God. Through the experience, I watched this little girl, become a responsible young adult, and she delivered a baby boy at age 13. Her needed to rearrange her plans for several years, but she did finish high school. Eventually she found a young man who truly loved her and they were married and moved out of state.

What impressed me most through this time, and what I would like to share with you is Psalm 139. You will find this chapter of great comfort, and rest for your weary soul. I encourage you to look up the Psalm, but for convenience I will quote verses 13-16 for you.

"For you formed my inward parts; you wove me in my mother's womb. I will give thanks to You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Wonderful are Your works, And my soul knows it very well. My frame was not hidden from You, when I was made in secret, And skillfully wrought in the depths of the earth;. Your eyes have seen my unformed substance; and in Your book were all written the days that were ordained for me. When as yet there was not one of them."

All your days were ordained by the Lord, before one of them came into being. This pregnancy did not catch the Lord by surprise. All the days of your baby are also ordained by the Lord, as He cares and loves you both. The Bible says "call upon me in the days of trouble, and I will answer." I will be praying for you and your baby and your boyfriend. Call upon the Lord during this time, and He will be a strong tower for you to run to. God loves you my friend!

[Debbie]

Dear Florence,
Your situation has really touched my heart. I am so glad God put the people in your path (your boyfriend and his family) that turned you away from the thought of abortion. That may have opened the door to many more problems emotionally than you could ever imagine...abortion can never be undone. So I am happy for you that you do not have to live with that heavy burden.
Your doctor is 100% correct, this baby is a gift from God and a blessing!! 21 years ago my doctor told me to have an abortion when I got pregnant with my son. I had been anorexic, bullemic and was on medication. He said the medication would likely cause him to be born with some disabilities or birth defects. I couldnt do it!!! I went to another dr. and gave my life to Christ. I had the utmost faith that God would not give me more than I could handle...I was totally 100% reliable on Him!! Long story short...my son was due on December 25, 1988...however he was born COMPLETELY HEALTHY on December 7th, weighed 7lb 7oz, born at 7pm. I didnt realize all of the 7's until I had gotten home from the hospital. It truly was a miracle...with God's hands all over it. And this is an opportunity to glorify Him, I had faith and did not doubt, and He answered my prayers.
Your emotions will change from day to day, and most of it due to hormonal changes. But God remains the same..lean on Him and give Him all your worries, he wants them but you have to give them to Him. He won't take them. Also remember there is never a time that Jesus is not with you!! There is never a place where He is not!! God has a plan for you!

Philippians 4:6-7
Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

Isaiah 41:10, 13
So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand...For I am the Lord your God, who takes hold of your right hand and says to you, Do not fear, I will help you.

Matthew 6:33-34
But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of it's own.

James 1:12
Blessed is the man who perseveres under trial, because when he has stood the test, he will receice the crown of life that God has promised to those who love Him.

My thoughts are with you and I am praying for you continually...I know you are scared...i've been there. Give it to God, your burdens will be lifted! This child is definately a blessing and a gift! In 21 years you may be telling someone else the same thing...everything happens for a reason!
Much Love,
Debbie

[Florence Muyeye]

Thank you so much, and that verse has kept me going and i read every morning..!!!

[Florence Muyeye]

Thank you all for your great support, its really amazing that God has chosen you to say the exact words i needed to hear. May God continue using you for you really have given me great support. i am now almost 6 months and its a baby girl and hopefully through God's grace and all your prayers i will be able to look after my baby.